What a Circle Can Make Possible

There is something about the arrangement of a circle that interests me. People can see one another, and the shape makes shared participation easy to imagine. I think it is a useful starting point for a conversation about community.

A circle alone does not create trust. The way people are welcomed, the expectations for participation, and respect for personal boundaries all matter. I want community spacesto include room for someone to listen without being put on the spot.

Shared activities can give people something to enjoy together before there is much conversation. Drumming, listening to sound, or simply spending time together can offer different ways to participate. I like the possibility of connection that does not depend on everyone having something clever to say.

My understanding of gathering includes room for different levels of comfort. A newcomer may want to observe, and a familiar participant may want a less active evening. Participation can change from one gathering to another.

As I reflect on community building, I want to keep paying attention to those choices. A welcoming space includes the activity, the people, and enough room for each person to decide how to take part.

A Few Questions I Am Often Asked

What happens at a community gathering?

Each gathering is a little different. Some center on a shared activity like drumming or listening to sound, and others are simple conversation. You are welcome to join in or to listen quietly.

Do I have to talk or know anyone?

No. Many people arrive on their own, and watching quietly is a real way to take part. There is no level of participation you owe anyone.

Where do you gather, and why in person?

We gather at the Empower House Community Gathering Space in North Phoenix, Arizona, and you can see upcoming dates on the events page Being in the same room matters to me: the U.S. Surgeon Generalhas described social connection as essential to health, and I think a shared space makes that possible in a way a screen does not.

If you'd like more info, feel free to call me at 623-986-3987.

Warmly, Water Shepherd